Introduce the category of 'enabler' to the list of identifiers (ie alongside gainer, encourager, admirer, maintainer, muscle gainer)

What is an 'enabler'?
Encouraging gainers is typically viewed through the spectrum of feederism - The gainer being the feedee and the encourager being the feeder, and this act of feeding is often seen as an erotic act in of itself. However, enabling is a more passive form of encouragement. Generally speaking, the act of feeding is less sexual in nature - for the enabler, their goal is to ensure that the gainer is well provided for without exerting unnecessary energy.
A typical example would be that an enabler would go to lengths to ensure that a gainer has something to eat while watching a movie together, or suggesting getting something to eat before and after to make sure the gainer doesn't go hungry.

In essence, the enabler exists to 'enable' the gainer's gluttony, and through it, weight gain, and to help make the process of weight gain as easy as possible. For many enablers, this is often explained as the process of enabling being means to an end - encouraging in itself is not the driving erotic aspect, the weight gain is. For other enablers, this can take a more holistic, lifestyle approach as well, enabling a gainer to live a more sedentary or easy lifestyle.

Dear Feabie staff:

I really like the option to be able to choose the "Site-wide my type filter" as I'm interested in women only. I mean, I don't hate men, but I neither have anything to say to them on this page, so I find it pleasant here to see women only.

However, it would be even more precise, if I could choose between "women" and "trans-women" for the same reason. I happen to be the one who like real women only.

Or if that's not an feature for your to develop, maybe you could add a tiny logo in every member's thumbnail image that shows the gender of the member?

Because 99 times of 100 it's a real woman that I'm interacting with. And after checking the gender of dozens of real women, some day I start forgetting to check their real gender in their profile. And after forgetting to check the gender, some day I end up interacting with a very beautiful woman. No. Wait. Trans-woman! OMG. Then I again remember to go and check the real gender of every woman for months, unless I forget it again, and I find myself interacting with a trans-woman.

That's why I'd like to whether exclude trans-women by default, or be reminded repeatedly and noticeably about the gender of the member that I'm interacting with.

In other words: Even if there is the "gender" to be checked in everyone's profile, I think it could be much more visible to prevent misunderstandings.

I know, I'm a little narrow-mined on this, but I would really appreciate if you could help me on this. I would assume that many other members would find it very helpful as well!

Many thanks! ❤️

BR
Marko

For paying members I would recommend adding a feature to the search that applies a "not" criteria for the search, such as "Not a Feedee", "Not a Woman", or "Not Married". I think that wouldn't be too hard to implement and would be very useful for searches. Of course it would have to work with searching for things too, like: searching for women who are feedees, but not identifying as a BBW.

Another filter for paying members that would be amazing at saving time is to hide profiles who have a primary interest in making money through video/skype-shows/gifts. There are so many profiles on here built around wanting to get money for food or money in general. Posts are limited for advertisements in the current terms but it would be nice for profiles to be moderated by somebody who looks if the profile is built around solicitation to mark it as a profile that can be hidden.

10 days ago we had a grommr member passaway and even though its sad for that to happen there was no notifacation from you so i propose an idea.

special icons next to the users name to indicate if they're alive or dead. if they're a grommr XL member or if they been banned.

Furaffinity.net has an icon system in place to show various things on the users account a ~ for active members an ! point for suspended or banned users (you can visit the banned users page if they are banned) and the most important symbol an infinity symbol to show if the user is deceased.

can we have a similar icon system to show if the person is active etc.