Introduce the category of 'enabler' to the list of identifiers (ie alongside gainer, encourager, admirer, maintainer, muscle gainer)

What is an 'enabler'?
Encouraging gainers is typically viewed through the spectrum of feederism - The gainer being the feedee and the encourager being the feeder, and this act of feeding is often seen as an erotic act in of itself. However, enabling is a more passive form of encouragement. Generally speaking, the act of feeding is less sexual in nature - for the enabler, their goal is to ensure that the gainer is well provided for without exerting unnecessary energy.
A typical example would be that an enabler would go to lengths to ensure that a gainer has something to eat while watching a movie together, or suggesting getting something to eat before and after to make sure the gainer doesn't go hungry.

In essence, the enabler exists to 'enable' the gainer's gluttony, and through it, weight gain, and to help make the process of weight gain as easy as possible. For many enablers, this is often explained as the process of enabling being means to an end - encouraging in itself is not the driving erotic aspect, the weight gain is. For other enablers, this can take a more holistic, lifestyle approach as well, enabling a gainer to live a more sedentary or easy lifestyle.

Grommr Messaging Only App - Since there seems to be some trouble getting the full Grommr experience approved / sanitized for the App Store, I was thinking perhaps a "messenger only" style app might be easy to get approved and very useful for the user base. Even if there were no profile pictures, just names, the ability to get push notifications of new messages I think would greatly enhance the user experience. So many users complain about ghosting and difficulties with messaging, and after a few interactions with other users these past few weeks, I'm realizing they don't have the app and don't get notifications of new messages. Also made me realize why so many other chat apps are popular among users here, sharing WhatsApp ids etc. So to summarize, make a barebones boring easy-for-app-store-tyrants to approve chat/messaging application with push notifications that can be used to enhance the user experience for everyone who sends and receives messages on this platform.

Dear Feabie staff:

I really like the option to be able to choose the "Site-wide my type filter" as I'm interested in women only. I mean, I don't hate men, but I neither have anything to say to them on this page, so I find it pleasant here to see women only.

However, it would be even more precise, if I could choose between "women" and "trans-women" for the same reason. I happen to be the one who like real women only.

Or if that's not an feature for your to develop, maybe you could add a tiny logo in every member's thumbnail image that shows the gender of the member?

Because 99 times of 100 it's a real woman that I'm interacting with. And after checking the gender of dozens of real women, some day I start forgetting to check their real gender in their profile. And after forgetting to check the gender, some day I end up interacting with a very beautiful woman. No. Wait. Trans-woman! OMG. Then I again remember to go and check the real gender of every woman for months, unless I forget it again, and I find myself interacting with a trans-woman.

That's why I'd like to whether exclude trans-women by default, or be reminded repeatedly and noticeably about the gender of the member that I'm interacting with.

In other words: Even if there is the "gender" to be checked in everyone's profile, I think it could be much more visible to prevent misunderstandings.

I know, I'm a little narrow-mined on this, but I would really appreciate if you could help me on this. I would assume that many other members would find it very helpful as well!

Many thanks! ❤️

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