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  1. Video variant

    Hello, I have a suggestion. In the left column is '' photos Latest (My Network) '' is it an idea to make a video version of it?

    Regards.

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  2. Heaviest member link on sidebar to the fattest member's featured profile.

    Could we maybe get a link to whoever is currently the heaviest active member on the site in the sidebar? It could just query the weight database and whoever has the highest weight from a recent change is featured as the fattest member. There could even be an opt-out checkbox on the profiles for folks that prefer privacy.

    The whole purpose of this site is for dude's who like fat dudes, so why not showcase the biggest? It might even help inspire some folks to want to really give it a go and see how big they can get.

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  3. Profiles marked as in an open relationship should be able to add sexual interests

    Most profiles have the section for "sexual interests"profiles marked open relationship do not, that section is still potentially useful and so would be good to have

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  4. Profiles marked as in an open relationship should be able to add sexual interests

    Most profiles have the section for "sexual interests"profiles marked open relationship do not, that section is still potentially useful and so would be good to have

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  5. Need video calling

    Need video call for the app..

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  6. Spam Bots

    Is there anything we can do about these spam bots that keep posting these sex video clubforgay.org ads? They're annoying.

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  7. More inclusive age and weight search

    Currently, you can only search for members up to age 75 and up to 600 lbs.
    Suggestion: increase searchable age and weight to 99 and 999 lbs respectively. Thanks.

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  8. Grommr Calendar?

    Why doesn't grommr have a function where you can set up an event on a "grommr Calendar" so that others know and can be invited?

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  9. I smoke cigarettes

    I smoke cigarettes and am looking for guys who also smoke cigarettes. The options on grommr are misleading. One can check pipes/cigars/tobacco but it seems like many of those who check that box like guys who smoke but don't smoke themselves. I wish there was a "I smoke cigarettes" box to check.

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  10. modifications in searching program

    I love this site dearly. I really need to find a partner, seriously.
    The search program has some challenges - for instance, if you punch-in "United States: for location, you get only one specific zip code that seems to be random rather than the whole country.
    And it would be super-helpful if there were some way to differieniate between guys who want someone skinny who wants to become fat vs someone who wants to maintain, like me. Make sense? There are a lot of guys out there who want someone small to start out with vs someone who wants to…

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  11. Net neutrality and Grommr

    I'm curious about whether the axing of net neutrality in the US will impact how Grommr operates? Does anyone (whether from the Grommr team or just members in general) have thoughts on this?

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  12. It’s unacceptable that people can still access photos and conversations sent from one party to another after one party blocks the other!

    We block people for our own reasons, mainly a sense of security and safety. Why the hell do these people still have access to our previous conversations and even worse, image contents shared with them. This is dangerous. I don’t care if most chat platforms still operate his way, Grommr should do better. The nature of the content shared on this site is very personal. Fix it!

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  13. Cards Against Huge Manatees suggestions

    Can we start a thread where users can post suggestions for CAHM cards? The ones hat currently exist are hilarious but I have one or two I'd like to suggest. :)

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  14. Fake profile

    This guy’s data and photos don’t match up
    Gary

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  15. Total weight of grommr

    Add and post a live "scale" displaying the weights of all Grommr users (either in total or only the weights of those online).

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  16. It’s unacceptable that people can still access photos and conversations sent from one party to another after one party blocks the other!

    We block people for our own reasons, mainly a sense of security and safety. Why the hell do these people still have access to our previous conversations and even worse, image contents shared with them. This is dangerous. I don’t care if most chat platforms still operate his way, Grommr should do better. The nature of the content shared on this site is very personal. Fix it!

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  17. 9 votes
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  18. Clean up

    It's slightly annoying to look at profiles only to see they have been inactive for 3 or so years. can you guys send out an email or just delete the inactive profiles? It may save on server space as well help everyone connect to those who are actually on the site.

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  19. Mandatory pics

    Exactly why are we allowing users with no face pics (and sometimes no pics at all) to stay here?
    The log in itself says "Social Network", and I don't find anonymity to fit the social part at all, plus let's just say that having ghost profile spread around watching my public pics etc etc make me feel pretty uncomfortable.
    All of this without taking into account that this should be a community about fat acceptance and support in our "journey", hiding won't help at all, in my opinion

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  20. I identify as "inflator" not bloater.

    Grommr I love this website because it enables people who are fat like me to communicate with others with the same interests. I like having the "I identify as" section but the only issue is Bloater I think is a little onesided because sometimes they bloat and or inflate shouldn't there be a Inflator option along with the other options?

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