Idea: a verification option for users and further option to only receive 'cold' messages from other verified users - this would perhaps deter fakes from joining.

Get rid of the limited messages! Let us all communicate!

When an underage user registers, allow them to set their real birth date, then ban their IP so that they cannot register again. However, keep their birthdate and IP and set up a timer to their 18th birthday, so that the day they turn 18 their IP ban would expire, and they could finish their registration.

A story section would be a nice addition

In light of the recent Tumblr downfall. Maybe blog style forums could be added to strengthen a sense of community. Forums to talk publicly about off topic subjects or post art, stories, things like that. It'd really help members feel more comfortable sharing interests and making connections.

Hello Grommr Admin,
I would like to say that I absolutely appreciate your work and your effort to keep this community Safe and Healthy. The last event of Rollings Stones naming Grommr was a Bright example of how you Admins are working. That makes me happy and proud to be part of this community.
Thanks for your efforts.

Diego

There should be a standard protocol, posted prominently by grommr, for interacting with a user who could be underage. This would at least help prevent people on this site from putting themselves in legal jeopardy. For instance, grommr could make a form to request that another user's age be verified. Grommr could also make it clear to younger users that they should expect to have to verify their age. That way there is no hesitation from both sides. Age verification should be like carding someone who orders alcohol - just standard procedure.

Unlimited blocks for men

promote the feedback forum better, get the whole community involved instead of just us with immediate problems.

please make a social network like grommr for female identifying feedists and fas. There is no representation for queer women in this community despite there being two separate grokio sites for queer men.

Please add Misandry to Law #5 - Equality goes both ways.

Add a minimum time limit of 1 week between someone deleting and recreating an account

Here is my basic idea:

I propose that to help calm disagreements on feabie we split the site. We develop a site that is for non-feedist bbw/bhm individuals and have feabie set geared toward the feedist community. This will help have focused communities and keep the community drama free while establishing "deep-rooted homes" for specific parts of the community.

Help vote this so we can make this a reality. Thank you!

Blocking should be freely accessible to everybody on the site. It's vital safety feature for this kind of place, regardless of gender identity.

It's rare I feel the need to 'block' someone (unless they're being specifically abusive) but it would be great to 'mute' them from the newsfeed. This would mean users who post content other users would prefer not to see, or would prefer to see less frequently, could be silenced/muted but private messages are still open if required and equally they can visit one another's profiles. Sometimes you can be good friends, but not be interested in EVERYTHING they say!

What about to throw away all the professional BBWs from this site? They are only doing advertisements and waiting for potentional clients. They only ask for money

I am wondering if the grommr staff have thought of doing a grommr like website for asexuals.

Increase your paid moderation support to provide 24 hour service. Currently trolls can appear and act for hours before being blocked.