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  1. Add 'Enabler' tag for members to identify as

    Introduce the category of 'enabler' to the list of identifiers (ie alongside gainer, encourager, admirer, maintainer, muscle gainer)

    What is an 'enabler'?
    Encouraging gainers is typically viewed through the spectrum of feederism - The gainer being the feedee and the encourager being the feeder, and this act of feeding is often seen as an erotic act in of itself. However, enabling is a more passive form of encouragement. Generally speaking, the act of feeding is less sexual in nature - for the enabler, their goal is to ensure that the gainer is well provided for without exerting unnecessary energy.
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      1 comment  ·  Feature: Profiles/Search  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
    • Add search feature filtering, and add a feature to hide "pay me" profiles.

      For paying members I would recommend adding a feature to the search that applies a "not" criteria for the search, such as "Not a Feedee", "Not a Woman", or "Not Married". I think that wouldn't be too hard to implement and would be very useful for searches. Of course it would have to work with searching for things too, like: searching for women who are feedees, but not identifying as a BBW.

      Another filter for paying members that would be amazing at saving time is to hide profiles who have a primary interest in making money through video/skype-shows/gifts. There are…

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      • Sims-style body type editor

        Replace body types with a Sims-style body editor, with sliders for different parts of the body.

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          0 comments  ·  Feature: Profiles/Search  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
        • ID verification

          Offer ID verification and then offer an option so that we will only see accounts belonging to other ID verified members. These would be members who have sent you a photo of themselves holding their current ID and a piece of paper on which they have written the current date and their signature.

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          • Filtering out genders you didn't specify in your "Type"

            I can set my type to a specific gender, but if that person includes that gender and something else like, say, Transgender, I'm seeing a lot of people I'm simply not interested in.

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            • Unfollow All Non-followers

              Unfollow All Unfollowers

              Please have a feature to have a grid of people who you are following but not following you back.

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              • Search for other users with all selected criteria

                Give users the ability to chose, when searching profiles, if the selected items are search as x AND y vs how it functions now, x AND/OR y. This way users can more easily find other people who share a set of shared kinks, for example.

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                • hour or minute specific time stamps unnecessary

                  can you guys add a setting where i cant see the last time someone was online? it makes me paranoid when someone doesn't reply after being online after seeing a message. id prefer to not know if they've seen it or not until they reply

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                  • Kyiv

                    Good evening. Please change to the correct spelling of the city of Kiev, writing Kyiv and not Kiev! Thanks!

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                    • I think it would be cool if there was a way to graph how big we are compared to the rest of the grommr community.

                      I think it would be cool if there was a way to graph how big we are compared to the rest of the grommr community. Show us what percentile we’re in compared to the other guys to encourage us to get fatter.

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                      • I think it would be cool if there was a way to graph how big we are compared to the rest of the grommr community.

                        I think it would be cool if there was a way to graph how big we are compared to the rest of the grommr community. Show us what percentile we’re in compared to the other guys to encourage us to get fatter.

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                        • Feedee tag as identification, not only in Search

                          Hi guys, thanks for your work first. Have you considered adding the tag "feedee" to the the diferent identifications? I find myself more and more identified with it and find it hard to put "gainer" when I think there is a huge different between the two. Thanks for your attention!

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                          • differentiate female and trans female

                            When I search "female" it gives me transgendered people. Either there is no differentiation between biological females and trans females, or maybe the category isn't clear what it means to them.
                            "female (biological)" and "transgender female" would help.

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                            • Site update

                              Suggestion for an update to the site. There's a place on profiles for your YouTube, Yahoo Messenger, Twitter, Skype, & Windows Messenger. Seeing as Windows Messenger was actually discontinued a few years ago. Perhaps remove it and add places for more modern social media apps like Instagram, Snapchat, Tumblr, & Kik.

                              Also since there are many gayners on the site, maybe add a place for gaming ids. Such as PSN (Playstation Network), XBL (Xbox Live), NNID (Nintendo Network ID), & Steam ID sections. Since the app is being updated this might be good to help us all be more connected.

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                              • A Filter For Who Can See You

                                Would it be possible to filter who is able to see you in the Global Newsfeed in addition to filtering who you see? I don't mean blocking a couple guys, I mean limiting my Chasabl community to certain types of guys; guys only around my age for example. This filter, like the current one, could be changed or turned off whenever by the user.

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                                • Separate "Foodie" tag

                                  I think Feabie needs a separate Foodie profile tag. Most people feel there is a difference between simply enjoying food more than the average person, and intentionally desiring weight gain or stuffing (feederism). I think it would ease some trouble. There are many people going to profiles expecting a person to gain weight or enjoy stuffing when it's not actually their thing. A lot of people who use the feedee tag actually mentioned in their profile they are not into gaining as well. I just think it would eliminate some headaches, and hopefully cut down on the number of people…

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                                  • Fake/Real possbility Indicator

                                    A facility to rate a profile as real or fake :)

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                                    • Add a religion option for profiles

                                      Just add a simple "religion/spiritual beliefs" option to show on profiles. Preferably make it so we can type in exactly what we want and not. Just limit it to a few common religions.

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                                      • Specified relationship preferences

                                        It'd be nice if we were able to select what kind of a relationship we'd be interested in that way people who want an open or monogamous relationship are able to find others who would like the same.

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                                        • Implement an Age Verification System

                                          Age verification system:
                                          Since asking to verify age upon joining would probably deter many people from joining, what about a system where you can opt to verify age and if you have proof of age you get something on your profile that says "Age verified." It would give a lot of members peace with who to trust, especially considering a lot of people on here get sexual with users.

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