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  1. Expand the search/filter: keywords, religion, income, HIV status, etc.

    Can we please get status filters such as "Cam?" "Skype?" and "Bored?" placed to these filters? I automatically filter every post made by someone who does that in the same way someone filters out by Gainer/Encourager identity, so how about it?

    Also: religion

    income bracket

    HIV status

    whether you live alone

    mobile/immobile?

    If this is really a dating and connection tool, they should include those, as those are things that people look for as much as age, race and height.

    41 votes
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    • A feature where you can store private notes for profiles...

      Makes it easy to remember real names, private email addresses, last chat, etc.

      37 votes
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      • Require a photo in profiles. If you can see me I should be able to see you.

        It's a gaining community site. You shouldn't be able to have a profile without a weight. If you're not a gainer than it shouldn't be a problem.
        The photo should be one you can see the person, not just a random torso.

        25 votes
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        • Add trans*-friendly option to the profile/search

          Remove "transexuals/intersexuals" from the kinks & fetishes list and replace it with a profile option to indicate that you are trans*-friendly, i.e., that you are okay with trans*men speaking/flirting with you. This would make the transgender members of the community feel more welcome and comfortable.

          33 votes
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          • Add a video page to profiles

            For those of us with videos, it would be great if there was a page on our profiles where we could display our videos. If we could use the embed code from Youtube, people could watch the videos without needing to upload the videos to the site (thus saving server space). It seems many people (including myself) are now unlisting their videos, so this would be a good way to display their videos permanently for the users, whereas currently video links only last as long as they are displayed on one's wall posts.

            44 votes
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            • Add Smoking and Drinking Habits

              I don't want to have to filter through men who drink more than a few drinks here and there or who smoke. And others have preferences as well.

              95 votes
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              • Allow filtering by state

                There should be a box in the search that lets you search or filter by state. This is especially useful for those of us who live in NJ near NYC and don't want our searches filled up with NYC people. I'm sure there are other examples where people would prefer to restrict their searches to a certain geographic area. Right now when I do a search and enter "New Jersey" in the location field, it just picks a central point in NJ and shows nearby guys from that point. I want to see nearby people from where I am but…

                11 votes
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                • Ability to rank or order your characteristics such as "Identify as"

                  Just something that would help convey what is more important and relevant to yourself. Could apply to several fields such as Identify As, Languages, Body parts I like, etc.

                  14 votes
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                  • Add a search option for NOT following / followed by you

                    This way users can find new members to follow

                    29 votes
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                    • 19 votes
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                      • Add a feature that includes MBTI personality types.

                        For those of us that are on here looking for a relationship, there's very little to go on as to whether or not the relationship will succeed currently. MBTI personality types are the most scientifically proven system available (used by the FBI as well). Having a field for your personality type and then an option to to search for other personality types would really help us make sure we'll be able to build relationships with people that we will have a real chance of a lasting emotional connection.

                        52 votes
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                        • 15 votes
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                          • Intelligent matches list

                            There are so many users it's hard to know who you are compatible with. We should team up with ok Cupid and have a dating section where you get matched based on questions you Answer.

                            155 votes
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                            • Add an "Available to Skype" toggle on profiles

                              To aid the "cam?"/"skype?" crowd in finding companions... and to reduce spam in the newsfeed for the rest of us, i suggest an "available to cam/skype" toggle be added to profiles. and then have a link under "people" with a list of the guys that have the toggle = "yes". to keep list updated, default for toggle upon log-in is "no".

                              34 votes
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                              • Option to search people by Youtube Username

                                seeing as most gainers are on youtube it would be nice to see if any of them have Grommr accounts as well, by searching their youtube name on here. could also be applied to twitter username etc.

                                23 votes
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                                • Reorganize profile into one tab (instead of 3), organize information better

                                  A lot of people's profiles are pretty bare bones. I think we need a full profile to be one full tab (rather than broken into 3 tabs - basic, extended and sexual preferences) and then have the wall be a separate tab. Profiles should be one cohesive format that reads naturally, and has a format that looks similar to how people fill it out (think OkCupid). We need more questions that can get people to open up a little. Then we need to have a keyword search where people can search for people with common interests. I think this would…

                                  19 votes
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                                  • Gainers Map

                                    It will be interesting to develope in that site, a page with a google map app to see where the users are located, as seen on fantasyfeeder.com, where u can check who is the nearest person to you

                                    13 votes
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                                    • 13 votes
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                                      • Add "Humiliation" as a kink

                                        Have "Humiliation" or "Ridicule" as an slectable kink option so no one has to assume and no one gets offended if they aren't into it.

                                        24 votes
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                                        • Lock some of the Profile fields until a question is answered correctly

                                          For those users looking to meet other like-minded individuals, the contact pool can be a bit of a challenge to navigate. I think it would be helpful to allow users to lock their contact information and photos (outside of something like the profile photo) to weed out those not necessarily looking for the same relationship.

                                          I find it difficult to weed through multiple requests to cam or share pictures when I only want to share those with people I enjoy talking to.

                                          My suggestion would be to create a "Research and unlock" feature - where you could "lock" your profile…

                                          20 votes
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