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  1. Fetishsizing Trans People Is Not Okay

    On the website there is the issue of there being a "transexual/intersexual" kink. Firstly the term transexual is pretty outdated as most just say trans. Second, it's pretty gross to fetishsize a group of people like that. Like being attracted to a trans person should not be considered a kink as it adds to the fetishsization of trans people as well as intersex people.

    12 votes
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  2. Body parts I love: cankles

    Please add cankles to "Body parts I love". Also a way for people to indicate they have cankles since cankles are a rare and special gift that too few people have.

    3 votes
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  3. Confirm photo before sending in private message

    I'd love a chance to confirm a photo before it posts or sends in a private message. Sometimes you can click the wrong image.

    19 votes
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  4. Display height/weight upon hovering

    We can already see a user's location and age when we hover over their username, but we cannot see their height or weight. Considering how important weight is to the community, it could be a useful addition.

    26 votes
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  5. Hucow/Bull

    Adding Hucow and Bull to the fetish listing, and maybe even add that to the identifier like feedee/feeder/Cow/Bull, etc.

    4 votes
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  6. Notification when a user has been blocked

    Allow users to show who has blocked them. This will allow users to know if someone has left the site or simply blocked them.

    2 votes
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  7. Remove the post limit.

    How about being able to post more than one status an hour? That seems pretty reasonable.

    17 votes
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  8. More "I Identify As..." options

    Instead of just Feede(e) (r) FA, and the BBW BHM, add some more. Foodie, for example is one I see a lot of people describing themselves as. Gainer is good, because feedee seems like they need someone's help.

    4 votes
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  9. Temporaryly Deactivate / Hide Profile

    Have a feature to deactivate your account instead of only being able to delete it permanently

    31 votes
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  10. Against Anonymous Viewing

    Anonymous viewing. Not a fan.

    5 votes
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  11. Allow users option to block flirts sent to them

    Provide option to block flirts

    3 votes
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  12. Allow people to identify as a "gainer" if you're into gaining weight

    make an option for people to identify as gainers. not everyone who is into gaining weight wants to be fed/be a "feedee"

    33 votes
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  13. Advertise the Site so more people can join.

    Could you find a way to advertise the site so that more people can join and others can find local members near to them?

    4 votes
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  14. Notifications on new comments after I comment a photo

    Hello, it could be very nice to also receive notification for new comments on pics of others users once I have commented them. I always miss answers :(

    6 votes
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  15. Matchmaking

    It'd be kind of like the tinder swipe! It could either be anyone or your filter radius or just people nearby. Then people who want to find someone, can know for sure who's actually interested, instead of them just playing along.

    3 votes
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  16. Save multiple site-wide filters

    Add the ability to save more than one filter so we can switch between them without having to redo all the settings each time. For example, sometimes I want to filter for male feedees, but other times I want to see what other female feeders are posting.

    7 votes
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  17. Block Notes

    Allow users to leave a personal note for them to reference back to about why they blocked a user (ex: I blocked this person because they were mean in a private message to me). This would only be viewable by the person who blocked the other person

    17 votes
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  18. Please allow for non-paying customers to see up to 50 photos

    Right now if u are a non-paying customer you can only see 25 pics and when u nom or comment that is like seeing 2 photos .There are so many users we should be able to see more pics in full size.

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  19. Archive messages with a deleted account

    Allow for the ability to see messages from accounts that have blocked you / you've blocked, as well as users who have left the site.

    It would allow for the benefit of being able to report harassment and still have proof.

    8 votes
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  20. More Variety in Gaining Labels

    Let's grow the grommr community! :) Let's make room for more GBT communities that have similar goals or ideas. If you guys think this is a bad idea, then maybe a 4th site should be created instead. Alright well here are my ideas:
    -Audience in mind: GBT bodybuilders, power lifters, lifters, muscle men, encouragers, and admirers

    More Labels:
    BB (Bodybuilder)
    P -or- PL (Powerlifter)
    L (Lifter)
    MM (Muscle Maintainer)
    MG (Muscle Gainer or Muscle Grower)
    MA (Muscle Admirer or Muscle Miriner/Mirer)
    ME (Muscle Encourager)
    GP (Gym Partner?)
    CM (Combo Maintainer)
    CG (Combo Gainer/Grower)

    Combo= Someone who has a combination of…

    25 votes
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