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  1. Create protocol for dealing with possibly underage user

    There should be a standard protocol, posted prominently by grommr, for interacting with a user who could be underage. This would at least help prevent people on this site from putting themselves in legal jeopardy. For instance, grommr could make a form to request that another user's age be verified. Grommr could also make it clear to younger users that they should expect to have to verify their age. That way there is no hesitation from both sides. Age verification should be like carding someone who orders alcohol - just standard procedure.

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    • Reduce the begging culture on the website

      People are growing tired of seeing begging posts on the newsfeed. Posts to the global newsfeed should be flagged and sent to an admin for approval before posting if it contains the following words.. "Paypal", "OnlyFans", "Patreon" and "donate" or any combination thereof. Alert the user their post is in a queue for moderation. I think you'd find the site would improve dramatically without the begging culture that has been allowed to fester.

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      • Hello everyone. As a premium member of Feabie from Turkey, I believe we lack a bit of members here and a loca marketing is needed.

        Hello everyone. As a premium member of Feabie from Turkey, I believe we lack a bit of members here and a loca marketing is needed.

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        • Rules and accessibilty

          Suggestion: Some sort of rule check quiz to sign up. Like one or two questions. Reduces the number of trolls, and reduces the likelihood that someone joins the site and hasn't read the rules. Also fix the mobile site and app to have easy access to the rules. Also also, make the Feedback button accessible on the mobile browser.

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          • PayItForward button

            a PayItForward button on the site's dashboard? Would help stop a lot of negativity and promote peace and confidence in the community.

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            • Allow new underage users to post their real birthday so they can get banned upon joining

              Make underage years an option upon joining, anyone that puts down an underage birthdate is automatically banned. It won't catch all underage but it'll catch the stupid ones before they even join.

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              • create groups

                Hallo,
                ich fände es schön wenn es Gruppen gäbe wie bei anderen Sozialen Netzwerken. So könnte man besser untereinander kommunizieren und andere besser finden.

                Hello,
                I think it would be nice if there were groups like other social networks. So you could better communicate with each other and find others better.

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                • Unlimited blocks for everyone

                  Unlimited blocks for men

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                  • Fix the admin team

                    The admin team on Ferzu is a disgrace and utterly disgusting in what they allow, they've allowed neo-nazism but a simple cis joke is grounds for banning and threats. Its absolutely disgusting

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                    • suggestion

                      If there is prostitution going on here the US government signed something that you might want to read up on.
                      https://www.congress.gov/bill/115th-congress/house-bill/1865

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                      • Blocking daily limit

                        Hey all so I sent an email to Grommr support as I was being harassed by this 60 year old and could not block him.

                        The problem I have is I was Grom XL for a couple of months and so blocked every moron who came my way. Now the problem I have as non-XL is I have way too many people to unblock (and most I would not want unblocked) to be able to block new people. I ended up with a dozen messages or so before the guy stopped.
                        Now I understand that unlimited blocks is a large…

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                        • Stop worrying about the money and worry about people

                          you still have much to work on. The new rules don't exactly help stop people from feeling unsafe here. How about instead of worrying about how much money you make from some of the sickos that come here to assault people worry about the safety of everyone and start caring about everyone instead of your bank account.

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                          • Sister site for queer female identified feedists and fas

                            please make a social network like grommr for female identifying feedists and fas. There is no representation for queer women in this community despite there being two separate grokio sites for queer men.

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                            • upcoming events

                              A link that can take you to upcoming events, not just shown because of the area you are in. Many of us travel so it would nice to have an option to see upcoming events that are going on everywhere.

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                              • Women's rights

                                Just keep making sure the women on here feel safe

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                                • Tone of posts

                                  Here's a post I read this morning. While it probably doesn't cross any lines, it's hateful, and I think it promotes the kind of things that people are complaining about. I realize it would be very difficult to police the tone of posts, perhaps this isn't the type of person than belongs in a community that ideally promotes acceptance.
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                                  Cow

                                  I make a post about needing to be skinny to aquire a feeder. What do I get? Some dumbfuck gray face whose only thing in his profile is "I'd love to fatten a skinny girl up" jfc, die already

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                                  • stop fucking up

                                    here's an idea: stop banning the trans members, and the victimized women of this fucking site and work on how to be less deplorable admins? because right now you guys are getting worst at this shit and it's literally disgusting.

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                                    • Stop sucking at your jobs

                                      You guys said you fixed this place.... How about instead of lying actually do something and also stop the transgender banning. This site is still going to crash and burn because you guys can't do your jobs right and no one can make a new site cause you jerks come in and make them take them down. Either fix your problems or let people make new sites so they can do it better.

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                                      • Dedicated name-and-shame hashag and sidebar link

                                        [Assuming a rule change occurs that permits naming-and-shaming.] Have a dedicated name-and-shame hashtag and a sidebar link that just shows all of the name-and-shame posts, to make it easier for people to find them and reduce the need for repeat-posting of the same naming-and-shaming content.

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                                        • Allow disparagement but forbid mob justice and bullying

                                          Allow disparagement but forbid mob justice and bullying. In Feabie's Law, it is stated that the reason for not allowing disparagement is to avoid breeding mob justice and bullying behaviour. Why not ban the problematic behaviour instead of bluntly banning disparagement, which does not necessarily lead to mob justice and bullying and can sometimes have positive impacts such as enabling members to warn others about poor behaviour of others, or express emotions of distress. Mob justice could be defined as a third party disparaging behaviour they did not directly experience. Bullying could be defined as (a) disparagement of a person…

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