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  1. Remove "Message Sent" banner

    Hey. When chatting, there is large banner that appears across the screen saying "message sent"

    I find it to be unnecessary and slightly annoying. I will know my message is sent when i see it pop up in chat. A simple checkmark or notification in the message thread showing it's been sent would be cleaner

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  2. Only Allow Followed Members to Send Photos

    Many people have been receiving unsolicited private pictures from strangers, usually ones they did not wish to see and feel harassed by them. Picture sharing could be made better and safer by only allowing people you follow to send you pictures in their private messages.

    118 votes
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  3. User Experience

    On the iPhone app at least, make the Newsfeed the default tab instead of people. Or give people the option to set their default tabs.

    I feel like there's too many taps required to write a new post.

    Also when posting a new update (from the app) it requires 2 taps to enter text (tap the notepad, tap inside the text field) and 2 taps to post (tap post to exit the scope of the text field?, tap post again to post)...this is tedious

    11 votes
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  4. Message character minimum

    Allow users to impose a character minimum for sending messages to prevent all of these "Hi" and "Hey" messages clogging up inboxes.

    8 votes
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  5. Farting Kink

    I'm trying to search for guys into farting, but there doesn't seem to be a search option for that

    4 votes
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  6. Receiver accepts/denies pictures

    Make it so that the recipient has to agree to receive a picture from someone else in chat/messages/mail. This will prevent unsolicited offensive images from being seen.

    3 votes
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  7. Ability to set location text manually

    Allow it so you can type in your location and not let it do it by gps because its not always right

    15 votes
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  8. Asexual Grommr?

    I am wondering if the grommr staff have thought of doing a grommr like website for asexuals.

    19 votes
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  9. Disparaging Allowed

    People should be able to expose trolls / harassers...i.e., if someone sends another a trollish/harassing remark, they should be able to share it and the identity of the sender to the community at large.

    13 votes
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  10. Manual location set

    The automatic location service that the app is operating isn't updated. Specially with traveling
    It would be better to keep the location set to be manual.

    18 votes
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  11. Comment replies

    Ability to reply to individual comments on a post/photo

    15 votes
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  12. 24 hour moderation

    Increase your paid moderation support to provide 24 hour service. Currently trolls can appear and act for hours before being blocked.

    8 votes
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  13. Add a "Favorite Games" section (no emphasis on videogames)

    Favorite games section - More people have favorite games than favorite books. Dating websites always assume that we do not and it seems a little counterproductive. Even if people do not like video games, they might like Facebook games or board games. Also, if people like games on Steam, Steam is a website where you could essentially have a first date by playing games and talking with each other at the same time. You can even watch each other play games there.

    4 votes
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  14. Notify when original poster deletes your comment

    We need some sort of feed back when the original poster deletes your comment in a topic. At the moment, the comment quite literally just disappears without any mention why. It took me several times before I even realized that they were being deleted and it wasn't just my internet connection not sending the message.

    7 votes
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  15. for the growth kink section, include slob

    include farting and slob as a growth kink.

    8 votes
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  16. Previous Conversation Indicator

    If you've messaged with someone, a little icon should appear on their profile that will take you to a list of your previous conversations with them so you can review your message history.

    5 votes
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  17. Add KIK Option

    Add Kik as an IM option. Over the past few years, KIK has become way more popular, but none very few websites have noticed it.

    4 votes
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  18. Add the ability to disable comments on a post or photograph.

    Allow the creator of a post or photograph to disable comments/replies. This would allow a user to "lock" a comment thread if it becomes too derailed or becomes abusive without requiring them to delete it entirely. Other users would still be able to "like" the content in question, but not post comments. Existing comments would be preserved.

    5 votes
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  19. Select All/See All Unread in Messages

    I'd like to see a function in messaging that allows users to 'select all' in messages. I find it hard on here to keep my inbox organized when I'm messaging often.

    11 votes
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  20. Toggle for Graphic Message Allowed

    This could take the form of a checkbox or something on our profiles. This way, people who are primarily interested in fetish fuel and people who are primarily interested in community and friendships can self-segregate a little more easily and interfere with eachother less.

    Perhaps add a "lewd messaging" option to the "I'm looking for" section, or something similar. By setting the new option as part of their site filter, users who want to send lewd messages will only see profiles of people receptive to those messages, and people who don't want those types of messages will receive fewer of…

    3 votes
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