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  1. Net neutrality and Grommr

    I'm curious about whether the axing of net neutrality in the US will impact how Grommr operates? Does anyone (whether from the Grommr team or just members in general) have thoughts on this?

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    • Cards Against Huge Manatees suggestions

      Can we start a thread where users can post suggestions for CAHM cards? The ones hat currently exist are hilarious but I have one or two I'd like to suggest. :)

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      • Total weight of grommr

        Add and post a live "scale" displaying the weights of all Grommr users (either in total or only the weights of those online).

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        • It’s unacceptable that people can still access photos and conversations sent from one party to another after one party blocks the other!

          We block people for our own reasons, mainly a sense of security and safety. Why the hell do these people still have access to our previous conversations and even worse, image contents shared with them. This is dangerous. I don’t care if most chat platforms still operate his way, Grommr should do better. The nature of the content shared on this site is very personal. Fix it!

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          • It’s unacceptable that people can still access photos and conversations sent from one party to another after one party blocks the other!

            We block people for our own reasons, mainly a sense of security and safety. Why the hell do these people still have access to our previous conversations and even worse, image contents shared with them. This is dangerous. I don’t care if most chat platforms still operate his way, Grommr should do better. The nature of the content shared on this site is very personal. Fix it!

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            • Fake profile

              This guy’s data and photos don’t match up
              Gary

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              • 7 votes
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                • Clean up

                  It's slightly annoying to look at profiles only to see they have been inactive for 3 or so years. can you guys send out an email or just delete the inactive profiles? It may save on server space as well help everyone connect to those who are actually on the site.

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                  • I identify as "inflator" not bloater.

                    Grommr I love this website because it enables people who are fat like me to communicate with others with the same interests. I like having the "I identify as" section but the only issue is Bloater I think is a little onesided because sometimes they bloat and or inflate shouldn't there be a Inflator option along with the other options?

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                    • Blocking

                      I find it very frustrating that there isn't unlimited blocking for free members. One shouldn't have to pay for the extended version of an app in order to avoid harassment. It should be very simple. If a person crosses a line or makes you uncomfortable for any reason, you should be able to block them. I've heard you allow blocking for women on other apps. Why should men have to put up with harassment or rudeness from other members?

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                      • search for straight

                        Not all of us are Gay, It would be nice to have the option to search for other Bi or straight members. If you can add buttons for kinks and looking up other interest. It would be nice to have these added also. Its not going to hurt anyone and will help with group connectivity!

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                        • Mandatory pics

                          Exactly why are we allowing users with no face pics (and sometimes no pics at all) to stay here?
                          The log in itself says "Social Network", and I don't find anonymity to fit the social part at all, plus let's just say that having ghost profile spread around watching my public pics etc etc make me feel pretty uncomfortable.
                          All of this without taking into account that this should be a community about fat acceptance and support in our "journey", hiding won't help at all, in my opinion

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                          • Changing colors on grommr

                            Hi. I was wondering if you guys soon wanna change the colors on Grommr? Instead of brown, there's so much more prettier colors, or just gray tones would help more. I like green color on the logo tho. I know I'm very finicky now, but brown isn't a color of the time I feel. Kind regards a longtime grommr user :)

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                            • Body fat percentage in member stats

                              I really enjoyed the community report and was wondering if you could add a % body fat field in the member stats to track that. BMI isn't the best measure of how fat someone is especially since many of us (myself not included) go to the gym often and build muscle. It has become quite easy to measure body fat with special scales or other tools. I'm guessing a lot of people would use this field.

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                              • gender classification on grommr

                                rather than not choosing gender at all .. include

                                Male
                                Transgender [ftm]
                                Transgender [mtf]
                                feminine
                                masculine
                                androgynous
                                crossdresser
                                non-binary [or queer]
                                other

                                A lot of people who join grommr .. leave it right after they sign in because they don't feel welcomed .. it will remain a male dominant platform .. but this will attract more people and make them stay.

                                please consider this.

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                                • wtf

                                  um so I was on grommr and it send me to feabie, what is happening?

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                                  • I believe you should give unlimited blocks to users.

                                    I think it should be a right of ours to block anyone who is harassing trying to use us. I've apparently reached my block limit and now I can't block someone who was trying to use me. This is unfair to me please respond to this. Thanks

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                                    • Move the History Project link

                                      Please move the History Project link. While it is vaguely community-oriented a link that a) pops up an alert and b) takes you to another page should not take over the place (last in the list) of one of the most used links on the site (My Newsfeed).

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                                      • Blocking Option

                                        I am trying to block someone and it's just saying "Oops, it looks like something went wrong" come on how it is such a hassle to simply block someone on here and it absolutely sucks there's only 10 blocks for users who don't pay for a profile here. I use other apps for free and they provide more than 10 blocks. Obviously there are both young and old creeps on most websites. Please help fix this issue!

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                                        • calendar

                                          Make a calendar with some hot fatties.

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