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  1. hour or minute specific time stamps unnecessary

    can you guys add a setting where i cant see the last time someone was online? it makes me paranoid when someone doesn't reply after being online after seeing a message. id prefer to not know if they've seen it or not until they reply

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    • Sebastian

      I am Sebastian I am 28 I am single and looking for a relationship I am honest I am loyal and if a few things and I would like to know write me please

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      • Different skins

        Darkmode/darkskin for the website and App

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          0 comments  ·  Site-specific (Ferzu)  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
        • Kyiv

          Good evening. Please change to the correct spelling of the city of Kiev, writing Kyiv and not Kiev! Thanks!

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            0 comments  ·  Feature: Profiles/Search  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
          • Allow Unlimited Blocking

            You need to allow us to block as many people as we need to without paying. Blocking is not a feature we should pay for, it's a necessity. We block people because they are bothering us or we want to break our connection to them. If you want to charge us for great features you have, that's wonderful. But blocking people is not a wonderful feature — it's a necessity. Grommr is the only site on the Internet that restricts the number of people we can block. Please allow us unlimited free blocking.

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            • Tell users how to share private photos

              The site first day how to share private photos

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              • Membership

                Free membership for women

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                • Let's get more Dutch people to Feabie

                  Can I please help to contribute, to make a version available for dutch users. Lot's of dutch users don't speak any of the languages of this site, and they are depending on super old, and bad, feeder and feedee sites. Let's pull all these dutchies to the site!

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                  • Pics not showing on wall when moved from private to public folder

                    Currently when a picture is inaccurately placed in private folder, requested for review, and then moved over to public folder it does not show up on my wall. It would be nice to fix this so when it's moved over it shows up on my wall.

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                    • scammers

                      he should be banned

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                      • I think it would be cool if there was a way to graph how big we are compared to the rest of the grommr community.

                        I think it would be cool if there was a way to graph how big we are compared to the rest of the grommr community. Show us what percentile we’re in compared to the other guys to encourage us to get fatter.

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                          0 comments  ·  Feature: Profiles/Search  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                        • I think it would be cool if there was a way to graph how big we are compared to the rest of the grommr community.

                          I think it would be cool if there was a way to graph how big we are compared to the rest of the grommr community. Show us what percentile we’re in compared to the other guys to encourage us to get fatter.

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                            0 comments  ·  Feature: Profiles/Search  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                          • antiquated/useless right-click block

                            Forbidding right-click on this website is like music DRM from the past. It annoys people that want fair use, and does nothing to prevent copies.

                            All I want to do is right click a photo to open that photo's page in a new tab to read/make comments. Oy 🙄

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                              0 comments  ·  User Interface  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                            • UPDATE PLEASE

                              An app update would be cool. Like a new layout, or options to change the colors or nighmode etc. Also videos!! You should be able to send videos in the messages etc.

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                              • chat room

                                A chat room would be terrific!

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                                  0 comments  ·  Feature: Messaging/Chat  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                                • Relationship preference filter

                                  We already have our relationship status, but it only reflects ou actual state, like, "single", "in an open relationship" etc.
                                  I think we need more filters, but for our relationship preferences, to specify what we want and find more people with same interests/desires , if im strictly mono i will want to find other people who are strictly mono, if im strictly poly, will want to find strictly poly people, so, i think it's a good idea to have a filter with our relationship preferences, for what kind of relationship we are looking for.

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                                  • Artist/commissioner finder

                                    Art: Artists and Commissioners.

                                    It would be a cool idea to have a part of the site that specifically deals with this. The community has a lot of talented artists willing to earn some windfall; and people who want to get art!

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                                      0 comments  ·  Feature: Cross-functional  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
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                                      • Blog Style Forums

                                        In light of the recent Tumblr downfall. Maybe blog style forums could be added to strengthen a sense of community. Forums to talk publicly about off topic subjects or post art, stories, things like that. It'd really help members feel more comfortable sharing interests and making connections.

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                                          0 comments  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                                        • Correcting Misleading Information

                                          On your home page you have "Some users will use the private chat and messaging. Others will like the video chat room, or commenting on photos", but it appears you don't have video chat rooms. That should probably be updated.

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