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  1. Please provide options in the profile settings for partnered members. This way both partners can share stats and info.

    Allow partnered members to both add stats in one profile. We should not require true partnerships supply separate profiles. It would be good to encourage healthy partnerships.

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    • Beep when reply is received (in currently viewed message)

      There is no noise that's played when receiving a new message when you're already on that message thread. A lot of the times I leave this page open cause the only thing I'm doing on Grommr is talking to this one person. I have to click off of the message thread so that I can hear the noise to know when they've replied.

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      • Joined options

        Some of your checklist options that are joint might better be separated. You already have specifications for Feeder separated from Feedee.

        I for one, like to be teased and humiliated but not in public by any means. In the Daddy/Son relationship, I'd like people to see at a glance that I'd prefer to be the son and not the Daddy as much, despite the slew of lovely twenty year olds who want me to father them.

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        • Expansion '12 Roommate Finder

          A tool or area to post yourself as available for rooming at Expansion, including specifics about non-smoking, eating in the room, times getting up/going to bed, and other special considerations like that.

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            0 comments  ·  Site-specific (Grommr)  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
          • Ability to Upvote/Downvote and Close Threads

            In the future to ease the burden of the admins/mods, you should implement an Upvote and Downvote feature to threads. Too many Downvotes and you could automatically hide or close threads from further postings. Also a close thread from future postings feature can be very useful to admins/mods.

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            • New comment notification don't highlight the comment

              When you get a notification of a command and click the link, it takes you to the page with the notification/comment on it, but does not highlight the comment or jump the page to the point where the comment is shown.

              Perhaps either including a page anchor in the link to scroll to that point, or highlighting the comment by way of a background colour or other visual element might assist in specifically targeting the item being referenced?

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              • Add a photo search with the same criteria as the people search.

                That way there's a lot less clicking involved if you're looking for that quick fix. *wink*

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                • Left-side nav-bar search box

                  Add a search box to the left side navigation. Default it to search usernames, perhaps giving a drop-down, or preferences setting if we want to search some other data field by default.

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                  • Reverse image search

                    Lets say you found a person's picture but you can't find there profile

                    so you put the photo in a image search bar then it try's to find the image it then gives you a link to that persons profile.

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                    • turn the my type tool into a third newsfeed that isn't set as anyones default newsfeed

                      A lot of members seem to be upset with the new filter system, I don't understand why. I see the tool as another feature to the website that no one is being forced to use. One member compared it to the "my newsfeed" option on the right and considered it redundant. I don't think its a redundant option though.

                      What I'm suggesting is that the filter becomes a third newsfeed option on the right side of the page, but leave the unfiltered global newsfeed as the default home newsfeed for everyone. Then members don't have to turn a filter on…

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                      • Add a new "measuring/weighing" kink

                        I would like the growth-related kink "measuring/weighing" added to the site. Although the use of scales and measuring tape are implied in a lot in gaining, some guys really get off on the activity (seeing the numbers, seeing scales tip, tracking progress), and integrate it into gaining encounters.

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                        • Option to be excluded from user searches

                          Add a feature to eliminate a user from search. He can still be followed and participate. For privacy minded users, this would add a detorent to stalkers etc...

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                            gathering feedback  ·  0 comments  ·  Feature: Profiles/Search  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
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                            • Allow commenting on a photo comment

                              I would like to suggest allowing users to directly respond to the photo comments others have made.

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                              • Confirm dialog when Following/Unfollowing someone

                                I think a good update to the site would be to add in a confirm follow question. So if you click follow it asks if you really do want to follow. It's easy to miss click when trying to go to your own profile. Would also be helpful to get an update when someone unfollows you as well.

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                                • Remind Users to fill-out info

                                  Perhaps to help alleviate the raft of otherwise-blank profiles, it would be nice if Grommr had the ability to 'nudge' a user to add details about their profile shortly after registration - say, within seven days.

                                  It could start small, like "We noticed you haven't listed any favorite movies - perhaps you'd like to share a few now?"

                                  Facebook, if I recall, does (or did) something similar - and would even go as far as recommend friends based on mutual interest(s).

                                  It would help encourage participation from users if they added details like this.

                                  Even a little bit of information,…

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                                  • Eliminate "North Philadelphia" from your FAQ.

                                    It's not really kind to us Philly gainers, etc. Let's not discriminate against any regions: there are possibly far more dangerous places worldwide.

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                                      • Highest Gains section

                                        Or any other use of the mass amounts of data they have on hundred's of gainer's weights and such. Like "total weight gained" or something. Obviously it could make people change their weight falsely to help the total go up, but I feel like there would be no reason to do that if it's just a fun stat up at the top.

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                                        • Recently view profiles section

                                          I was looking at a profile and i forgot to follow them. my web browser is set up to delete the web history every time it turns off. I really liked the person, but now I don't know who they where. I think that this feature would be good for people because they can look the profiles they have looked at.

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