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  1. Checkbox for "Seek financial support"?

    I wonder, what if there was a profile check box in the "looking for" department that would identify those looking for financial encouragement and would let people filter them out on their "My Type" view? I think it would make life easier both for the people selling content and people annoyed with the constant "feed me" posts.

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    • Heaviest member link on sidebar to the fattest member's featured profile.

      Could we maybe get a link to whoever is currently the heaviest active member on the site in the sidebar? It could just query the weight database and whoever has the highest weight from a recent change is featured as the fattest member. There could even be an opt-out checkbox on the profiles for folks that prefer privacy.

      The whole purpose of this site is for dude's who like fat dudes, so why not showcase the biggest? It might even help inspire some folks to want to really give it a go and see how big they can get.

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      • Chat

        I think there show also be an open chat room along with private messaging. Something Like the old Fantasy Feeders where people can causally video chat in a large group.

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        • visitation

          If there's an explanation for this that I don't get would someone please enlighten me?

          I get a notification that someone has liked one of my photos and is now following me.

          I visit that person's profile and under "Last Visited Your Profile?" not yet

          Hmmm...am I missing something or how would he have liked a photo and is following me yet has not visited my profile.

          Thank you.

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          • Open thread on grommr mobile app changes, and news updates on whats being done and when they will be done

            Open and ongoing thread for user generated suggestions about changes to grommr app and if and when they will be implimented

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              0 comments  ·  Mobile App  ·  Admin →
            • Why don’t you include other kinks in the mobile app? One of the best features of the site!!

              Why don’t you include other kinks on the mobile site? One of the best features of the site!!

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              • User verification with assistance of members

                How's about a verification system for users as a preventative measure against trolls and catfish?

                I understand that it is labour-intensive and there's only so many man-hours the admin team can provide in a day, which is why I'm also suggesting that verification can be outsourced to willing, vetted volunteers of the community.

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                • Add a discrete mode

                  Add a discrete mode that hides all photos across the platform, making it safe to enter the website/app to just read the newsfeed or reply to a message out in public. Without a big belly popping up on the screen for everyone to see!

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                  • Rules and accessibilty

                    Suggestion: Some sort of rule check quiz to sign up. Like one or two questions. Reduces the number of trolls, and reduces the likelihood that someone joins the site and hasn't read the rules. Also fix the mobile site and app to have easy access to the rules. Also also, make the Feedback button accessible on the mobile browser.

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                    • PayItForward button

                      a PayItForward button on the site's dashboard? Would help stop a lot of negativity and promote peace and confidence in the community.

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                      • Photo ID Requirement

                        Make photo ID a mandatory credential for new accounts.

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                        • Profiles marked as in an open relationship should be able to add sexual interests

                          Most profiles have the section for "sexual interests"profiles marked open relationship do not, that section is still potentially useful and so would be good to have

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                          • Profiles marked as in an open relationship should be able to add sexual interests

                            Most profiles have the section for "sexual interests"profiles marked open relationship do not, that section is still potentially useful and so would be good to have

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                            • Vet

                              Vet people. Stop shit posting. Nuke the trolls. Till then I am out of here. Every post I made so far has been nothing more then troll bait and flamed.

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                              • Don't cut URLs off in chat messages

                                I noticed that URLs posted in the mobile chat client cut off the actual URL path and leave just the domain.

                                It looks pretty misleading, not seeing where any URL actually leads. If there's an option already to change it, it really should be showing the whole URL by default.

                                Obviously, an embedded URL preview would be better still, but. Not having any clue where the URL is actually pointing is just not good.

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                                • Options for poly people to find each other

                                  I would like to be able to search for other people that are polyamorous, or by the content of a profile. Currently, the search function is limited to pre-defined tags.

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                                  • Camp Feral 2018

                                    Add Camp Feral to the events listing?

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                                    • Banning ageplay and talk of minors (not just photos)

                                      I am concerned that website rules only indicate that ageplay/talk of underage individuals is only banned for photos and not newsfeed/profiles.

                                      Perhaps re-wording the profile question asking about 'earliest" memories, as i can see how this can encourage underage discussion?

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                                      • Hide Local News Feed Pictures

                                        Setting to not show pictures in Local Newsfeed

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                                        • limiting comments?

                                          you should limit comments to ten a day, as not to spam the newsfeed and to make us think about what we are actually posting.

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