Thing is weight loss is a part of the kink for me... Now that i've gotten "fat": (sure im not 400 like some on here, but being 225 when i was 109 my whole life is fat to ME) i want to "try" to diet and fail. i want to eat healthy then rewad myself with a snack... lose 5 gain 7... so talking about losing is part of the feedism kink for me. i get not wanting the girls who are 135 and trying to lose weight, but i never see that. i see feedees who hit their goal and want to lose so they can regain, i see stuffers and foodees who have unintentionally gained and mentioned they are taking a break to lose before coming back... thing is there are a lot of users who were large their whole life and thought this kink is just about being fat, but there are tons of subsets of the kink. theres people who like to put pillows in their clothes and act fat and stuff, but never want to gain, they are a member of the feedist society too. this is not a body positivity site for people who struggled with their weight their whole lives to feel good, its a site about getting off to fat in numerous ways.. im at 225 now, i do not want to get bigger, but not ready to lose. if i am actively dieting im going to post things like, "wow, i feel so thin, i remember when i first got here this weight felt so big" etc etc... cause it will be a new experience for me. i might never get back down though as long as i don't get too much bigger... feedism accepts anyone that has any weight related kink, it is not a site for large people only, its for people of all sizes...
on another note, a feeder could be losing weight, something that would be super sexy to me would be a girl whos trying (and succedding) in losing, teasing me for getting so fat as she slims down... huge turn on weight switching and teasing...
This gets dangerous, guys are going to rate all the profiles of girls that reject them as fake
I have suggested before they need to make the genders: Cis-Male, Cis-Female, Trans-Male, Trans-Female, Gender Fluid, Non-binary Gender, and theres a couple other I am missng, Agender i think, Androgynous (but that is more of a look than a gender right?)
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