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  1. Grommr Calendar?

    Why doesn't grommr have a function where you can set up an event on a "grommr Calendar" so that others know and can be invited?

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    • More inclusive age and weight search

      Currently, you can only search for members up to age 75 and up to 600 lbs.
      Suggestion: increase searchable age and weight to 99 and 999 lbs respectively. Thanks.

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      • eating live stream

        allow us to do eating live streams

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        • I smoke cigarettes

          I smoke cigarettes and am looking for guys who also smoke cigarettes. The options on grommr are misleading. One can check pipes/cigars/tobacco but it seems like many of those who check that box like guys who smoke but don't smoke themselves. I wish there was a "I smoke cigarettes" box to check.

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          • modifications in searching program

            I love this site dearly. I really need to find a partner, seriously.
            The search program has some challenges - for instance, if you punch-in "United States: for location, you get only one specific zip code that seems to be random rather than the whole country.
            And it would be super-helpful if there were some way to differieniate between guys who want someone skinny who wants to become fat vs someone who wants to maintain, like me. Make sense? There are a lot of guys out there who want someone small to start out with vs someone who wants to…

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            • Net neutrality and Grommr

              I'm curious about whether the axing of net neutrality in the US will impact how Grommr operates? Does anyone (whether from the Grommr team or just members in general) have thoughts on this?

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              • It’s unacceptable that people can still access photos and conversations sent from one party to another after one party blocks the other!

                We block people for our own reasons, mainly a sense of security and safety. Why the hell do these people still have access to our previous conversations and even worse, image contents shared with them. This is dangerous. I don’t care if most chat platforms still operate his way, Grommr should do better. The nature of the content shared on this site is very personal. Fix it!

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                • Cards Against Huge Manatees suggestions

                  Can we start a thread where users can post suggestions for CAHM cards? The ones hat currently exist are hilarious but I have one or two I'd like to suggest. :)

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                  • Fake profile

                    This guy’s data and photos don’t match up
                    Gary

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                    • Total weight of grommr

                      Add and post a live "scale" displaying the weights of all Grommr users (either in total or only the weights of those online).

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                      • It’s unacceptable that people can still access photos and conversations sent from one party to another after one party blocks the other!

                        We block people for our own reasons, mainly a sense of security and safety. Why the hell do these people still have access to our previous conversations and even worse, image contents shared with them. This is dangerous. I don’t care if most chat platforms still operate his way, Grommr should do better. The nature of the content shared on this site is very personal. Fix it!

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                        • 7 votes
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                          • Clean up

                            It's slightly annoying to look at profiles only to see they have been inactive for 3 or so years. can you guys send out an email or just delete the inactive profiles? It may save on server space as well help everyone connect to those who are actually on the site.

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                            • I identify as "inflator" not bloater.

                              Grommr I love this website because it enables people who are fat like me to communicate with others with the same interests. I like having the "I identify as" section but the only issue is Bloater I think is a little onesided because sometimes they bloat and or inflate shouldn't there be a Inflator option along with the other options?

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                              • Blocking

                                I find it very frustrating that there isn't unlimited blocking for free members. One shouldn't have to pay for the extended version of an app in order to avoid harassment. It should be very simple. If a person crosses a line or makes you uncomfortable for any reason, you should be able to block them. I've heard you allow blocking for women on other apps. Why should men have to put up with harassment or rudeness from other members?

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                                • search for straight

                                  Not all of us are Gay, It would be nice to have the option to search for other Bi or straight members. If you can add buttons for kinks and looking up other interest. It would be nice to have these added also. Its not going to hurt anyone and will help with group connectivity!

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                                  • Mandatory pics

                                    Exactly why are we allowing users with no face pics (and sometimes no pics at all) to stay here?
                                    The log in itself says "Social Network", and I don't find anonymity to fit the social part at all, plus let's just say that having ghost profile spread around watching my public pics etc etc make me feel pretty uncomfortable.
                                    All of this without taking into account that this should be a community about fat acceptance and support in our "journey", hiding won't help at all, in my opinion

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                                    • Changing colors on grommr

                                      Hi. I was wondering if you guys soon wanna change the colors on Grommr? Instead of brown, there's so much more prettier colors, or just gray tones would help more. I like green color on the logo tho. I know I'm very finicky now, but brown isn't a color of the time I feel. Kind regards a longtime grommr user :)

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                                      • Body fat percentage in member stats

                                        I really enjoyed the community report and was wondering if you could add a % body fat field in the member stats to track that. BMI isn't the best measure of how fat someone is especially since many of us (myself not included) go to the gym often and build muscle. It has become quite easy to measure body fat with special scales or other tools. I'm guessing a lot of people would use this field.

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                                        • gender classification on grommr

                                          rather than not choosing gender at all .. include

                                          Male
                                          Transgender [ftm]
                                          Transgender [mtf]
                                          feminine
                                          masculine
                                          androgynous
                                          crossdresser
                                          non-binary [or queer]
                                          other

                                          A lot of people who join grommr .. leave it right after they sign in because they don't feel welcomed .. it will remain a male dominant platform .. but this will attract more people and make them stay.

                                          please consider this.

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