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  1. Confirm identity of a member / User verification

    On other sites, user identity is confirmed by requiring users to submit a photo of themselves holding a code number. This works well, and I suggest that it be used on this site also.
    That gives other users confidence that they aren't being misled when they visit a user's profile.

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  2. Ban weight loss posts in the newsfeed

    Weight loss statuses should not be allowed here. Every single time a vanilla comes in and makes a post about her weight loss journey, it's a huge mess. No one wants to see it here, especially when you can choose literally any other website to find weight loss support. Can we get them banned? Like, put into the rules that they are not allowed?

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  3. Unlimited blocking for everybody

    Blocking should be freely accessible to everybody on the site. It's vital safety feature for this kind of place, regardless of gender identity.

    353 votes
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  4. Proactive strategy to stop malicious users from remaking accounts

    Please make it harder for people to make an account,


    1. actually require people to validate their email


    2. impose a time limit before accounts can interact and post


    3. maybe implement a timestamp verification like adultfreindfinder does


    4. Shadowbans can be a huge boon.


    5. include options for people to be hidden from accounts that don't have any pictures or have pictures that are still pending.


    6. an option to just hide your account from accounts that are less than a week old.


    210 votes
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  5. Blocked people and events

    I regularly create events in the bay area. There have been a handful of times when people that I've blocked have shown up at my events. If I create an event, the people on my blocked list should not be able to see my events. This is a safety issue. Furthermore, MidlandsMassive has told me that someone who has her blocked regularly comments on her events discouraging others to attend. How is this possible?

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  6. Reputation Tracking

    Enact member reputation grading / filtering (so I can set a photo to only be viewable by people with at least a grade B reputation, for instance).

    In order to be eligible for reputation, a member's account should be at least 2 weeks old and he should have at least two photos viewable by anyone. After two weeks and as long as two photos are available, the member accrues points based on the number of noms his status messages and replies to others' messages receive.

    Allow admins to dock or reset a member's reputation to 0 if they are warned…

    38 votes
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  7. Removal of Members Who Break The Rules, Reguardless of Account Age.

    Currently, there is a problem. There are users who cannot be removed/banned from the site simply because their accounts are "too old."
    What sense does that make? Users who cause issues consistantly need to be banned reguardless of account age.
    It is toxic to the community if people who are consistantly breaking rules need to be punished instead of having this weird, broken, tenuredesque system.

    42 votes
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  8. tell users that the feedback forum exists and to look at it.

    promote the feedback forum better, get the whole community involved instead of just us with immediate problems.

    40 votes
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  9. Automatic removal of content (posts, comments, photos) based on community reports

    Might be ideal to give a way for members to report offensive comments made on the feeds either yours or others.

    Just saw a posting where either a guys account got hacked or he's just an ass and was very disparaging to another user. Seeing crap like that does not make this a friendly welcoming website.

    Maybe something similar like craigslist where if more than 1 (some number) reports it.. it's auto removed. (maybe a notice given to admins)

    25 votes
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  10. Banning ageplay and talk of minors (not just photos)

    I am concerned that website rules only indicate that ageplay/talk of underage individuals is only banned for photos and not newsfeed/profiles.

    Perhaps re-wording the profile question asking about 'earliest" memories, as i can see how this can encourage underage discussion?

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  11. Add an "In Memoriam" Quick List

    I think you guys should have an 'In Memoriam' section of known members who have departed us added to the navigation bar. I know death is something no one likes to think about, but it'll help the rest of us know why we haven't heard from certain members in ages, and it's a chance for people to pay their last respects.

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  12. Let anyone create an event

    Why not create a feature that lets anyone plan an event. like Facebook. this would allow for more/different events to happen than the same people controlling where/when the events happen

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  13. Disparaging Allowed

    People should be able to expose trolls / harassers...i.e., if someone sends another a trollish/harassing remark, they should be able to share it and the identity of the sender to the community at large.

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  14. Allow new underage users to post their real birthday so they can get banned upon joining

    Make underage years an option upon joining, anyone that puts down an underage birthdate is automatically banned. It won't catch all underage but it'll catch the stupid ones before they even join.

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  15. Provide official information about bans/sanctions

    Provide official information, via their profile page, about (a) the fact that someone has been banned (b) what kind of ban they got and (c) why they got banned, specifically. The truth needs to be made available directly, to avoid the potential spread of misinformation and enable people to make sound judgements about the validity of the various #FreeUsername campaigns which arise when prominent members are banned. Transparency and communication are important building blocks for trust in the platform.

    11 votes
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  16. Down-Vote Feedback

    I think there should be an ability to down-vote feedback. I feel as though only having an option to vote up would be an inaccurate depiction of what people want; something could be voted for by hundreds of users, but have twice as many against it that simply had to ignore it... how would you know the majority didnt want it, then?

    6 votes
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  17. VERIFICATIONS FOR COMMUNITY MODS

    Today I had an interaction with a self described volunteer moderator for your website. I would like to recommend some kind of profile portrait banner or other way of denoting that someone is indeed a verified volunteer moderator of your website. Seems suspect to me when someone can just claim they are.

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  18. Advertise the Site so more people can join.

    Could you find a way to advertise the site so that more people can join and others can find local members near to them?

    5 votes
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  19. Clarify and reconstruct Rule Seven

    I think rule 7 needs better clarification and needs to be strongly reinforced. When there is a disagreement on one post, the global is flooded for at least an hour of everyone else posting about said disagreement and basically forms an unwelcoming and hostile environment. I've known multiple users that have left the site for that reason alone.

    4 votes
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  20. Statistics

    Statistics Feature
    We could have a feature that describes how many feeders, feedees, BHMs, BBWs, and how many people in what countries there are. Just thinking it'd be a neat feature.

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