The identify as option should allow for SSBBW/ SSBHM. Because it can be misleading for us to put bbw/bhmwhen we are clearly beyond that. :)

Perhaps could there be two more options in the “Identifies as (Gainer) etc” to be feeder and feedee?

I would love to see an option such as "stuffer" or "bloater" (etc.) under the "Identifies As" selection for users of this website who enjoy the practice of stuffing/bloating/inflating themselves without the ties to weight gain or feederism. Feedee/Feeder works half way, but I think the stuffing demographic is specific enough and popular enough to justify a category of its own.

Quick edit note to the definition of an enabler: change "unnecessary energy" to "dedicated energy to the act of feeding"

Introduce the category of 'enabler' to the list of identifiers (ie alongside gainer, encourager, admirer, maintainer, muscle gainer)

What is an 'enabler'?
Encouraging gainers is typically viewed through the spectrum of feederism - The gainer being the feedee and the encourager being the feeder, and this act of feeding is often seen as an erotic act in of itself. However, enabling is a more passive form of encouragement. Generally speaking, the act of feeding is less sexual in nature - for the enabler, their goal is to ensure that the gainer is well provided for without exerting unnecessary energy.
A typical example would be that an enabler would go to lengths to ensure that a gainer has something to eat while watching a movie together, or suggesting getting something to eat before and after to make sure the gainer doesn't go hungry.

In essence, the enabler exists to 'enable' the gainer's gluttony, and through it, weight gain, and to help make the process of weight gain as easy as possible. For many enablers, this is often explained as the process of enabling being means to an end - encouraging in itself is not the driving erotic aspect, the weight gain is. For other enablers, this can take a more holistic, lifestyle approach as well, enabling a gainer to live a more sedentary or easy lifestyle.

Hi guys, thanks for your work first. Have you considered adding the tag "feedee" to the the diferent identifications? I find myself more and more identified with it and find it hard to put "gainer" when I think there is a huge different between the two. Thanks for your attention!

I think Feabie needs a separate Foodie profile tag. Most people feel there is a difference between simply enjoying food more than the average person, and intentionally desiring weight gain or stuffing (feederism). I think it would ease some trouble. There are many people going to profiles expecting a person to gain weight or enjoy stuffing when it's not actually their thing. A lot of people who use the feedee tag actually mentioned in their profile they are not into gaining as well. I just think it would eliminate some headaches, and hopefully cut down on the number of people being pressured into gaining when they aren't interested.

Add accidental/inadvertant gainer as an option for those with slow metabolism or people just going with the flow. Lots of people start to add weight with age, inactivity, or lack of self control. I think it's a worthwhile category to add.

Add accidental/inadvertant gainer as an option for those with slow metabolism or people just going with the flow. Lots of people start to add weight with age, inactivity, or lack of self control. I think it's a worthwhile category to add.

To your list of orientations or whatever it is, you need to add Foodee and clarify that Feedee's are gainers, foodees just like to eat food. There are too many on here who mark Feedee and then get mad that they're getting feeders messaging them

Grommr I love this website because it enables people who are fat like me to communicate with others with the same interests. I like having the "I identify as" section but the only issue is Bloater I think is a little onesided because sometimes they bloat and or inflate shouldn't there be a Inflator option along with the other options?

There needs to be an option other than BBW and BHM that isn't gender-specific for non-binary folks... some of us have come up with the term BPH (Big Pretty Human) and think that would be a good addition to the list

Can we get more community kinks on there? Bloating/inflation/other expansion related things? It helps sort out the people who are here as just chubsters and those who have kinks related to this site.

"gainers" are a very specific subset in feedism. There are people who want to be fed by aren't looking to gain, there are people who may be gaining but aren't doing it intentionally (and thus don't qualify), there are people who are into gaining but also don't like to be fed, there are feeders who are also looking to gain but still want to hold the dom role, etc...
And fix the app so you can read all the tags in people's profiles.

Hello. Love the site and the people I've met. Just wondering if there was a way to get a foodie option in the "identify as" section. If not that's cool. Keep up the great work :-)

The use of the tags "gainer" and "manteiner" must be excusives, you cant be a gainer and manteiner at the same time...

Great site! But I think you need some more growth related kink options; like vore, inflation, things like that! :)

More body tags ...
Hairy chest
Hairy back
Hairy everywhere

make an option for people to identify as gainers. not everyone who is into gaining weight wants to be fed/be a "feedee"

Additional Supplementary Interest Keyword Coding Options:
- Bear, Cub, Otter (or bear code)
(lots and lots of bears here)
- Leather, Kink, etc ... [See: Recon.com]
(lots of 'em guys here too)
- Perhaps a free-form text keyword field.

Specified Acceptable Age Range for Contacts
- Similar to the slider bar on search, to allow those users who require it the ability to clearly specify preferred and absolute age boundaries for potential contacts.