There is a lot of girls on here just trying to make money. Selling videos, pictures that stuff. Good for them but it makes the site seem like that's all it is. So girls who dont do that are assumed they do so they get perverts messaging them. I signed up for the site assuming it was to make friends and relationships, not porn

I just posted a very similar request. Have spoken with multiple users through the site who are disgruntled and echo this sentiment.

Hey Feabie, I've enjoyed using your website, I've been able to talk with people that have shared the same interest as me, made friends and helped improve my self confidence, I know Feabie is like a dating site, but from what I've seen is mostly people promoting their self business, or just using it for money, I know this is also like a social media website, but I find it hard to get a relationship with someone on here (like dating) I was wondering if there can be a section on Feabie for people that are looking for a relationship, or interested in being in one, without having to give someone on here money just to talk with them, I was wondering if this would be possible for a future update to the site, or when the new app launches, like matching people with common interest, distance, and their status in the feederism community (like a feeder dating a feedee), I think it would help those looking for a relationship to actually find one, instead of just sending someone a message and never getting a reply, hopefully you take this into consideration, I would love if this was a new feature that was added to the site, thanks for considering this idea if you choose to, hopefully this is added in the future, and I would love to hear your response!

Grommr needs a match feature of some sort, while following is nice it would be good to have a match feature so people can see who's mutually interested in a relationship of some sort

It's very hard to meet your partner especially if you prefer chasers. There are too many chasers who have partners and aren't in open relationships cluttering space. The idea that people looking for love have to wade through partnered profiles is troubling and can harm the mindset of a lonely guy. It also seems crappy for partnered people to use the users as eye candy when the app is a social one

Show when something is incompatible when searching up a user's profile. Many users are often hit on my people of a gender they are not interested in, or are hit on while in closed relationships. My idea is to have it so that, for example, if someone who identifies as a man goes to the profile of someone who is only interested in women, the text on the user's profile that normally says what they're looking for, will show up in bold text or another colour with a notification at the top of the page. I believe it would greatly reduce the number of unwanted advances and harassment. Other sites such as F-list do something similar and it would be really helpful, even if just for indicating if a person is interested in the visitor's gender or not.

Have you ever considered making a personality, values, interests/hobbies, etc. "test?" Right now, the only way that a person can find out if someone is a good match for at least a date is (1) if they find that person attractive and (2) if they live close enough. I think that making more of an effort to optimizing a compatibility would make things a lot more efficient.

Let me know your thoughts!

It would be nice if you could make match suggestions according to profiles

A feature similar to finding furs near you where when you click it, you get shown people who relate to you in what you are looking for, more on the relationship side of things. Basically like a tab showing you other furs who share a lot of common interests and meet the requirements you asked for on your profile.

I agree about the resource that I also know from Okcupid, I miss it, however it not should be restricted to gainers and encouragers, and also only to Grommr - the users from Chasabl deserve and need this too.

I ask also that the questions do not repeat between themselves as happens on Okcupid.

You guys should make like a "Speed Shuffle" where people click YES or NO to whether they like the person or not based on their pictures and Basic Profile information. Rules would be simple. If you click NO they're unable to message you. If you click YES they are optioned to click YES or NO for you. If you both click YES it's a match! Both are notified and the ice is broken through a simple YES or NO ;)

It'd be kind of like the tinder swipe! It could either be anyone or your filter radius or just people nearby. Then people who want to find someone, can know for sure who's actually interested, instead of them just playing along.

There are so many users it's hard to know who you are compatible with. We should team up with ok Cupid and have a dating section where you get matched based on questions you Answer.