Stricter anti-harassment policies/enforcement, discourage dogpiling, mobbing and the like against individuals.

Make underage years an option upon joining, anyone that puts down an underage birthdate is automatically banned. It won't catch all underage but it'll catch the stupid ones before they even join.

Weight loss statuses should not be allowed here. Every single time a vanilla comes in and makes a post about her weight loss journey, it's a huge mess. No one wants to see it here, especially when you can choose literally any other website to find weight loss support. Can we get them banned? Like, put into the rules that they are not allowed?

I am concerned that website rules only indicate that ageplay/talk of underage individuals is only banned for photos and not newsfeed/profiles.

Perhaps re-wording the profile question asking about 'earliest" memories, as i can see how this can encourage underage discussion?

promote the feedback forum better, get the whole community involved instead of just us with immediate problems.

Please make it harder for people to make an account,

1. actually require people to validate their email




2. impose a time limit before accounts can interact and post




3. maybe implement a timestamp verification like adultfreindfinder does




4. Shadowbans can be a huge boon.




5. include options for people to be hidden from accounts that don't have any pictures or have pictures that are still pending.




6. an option to just hide your account from accounts that are less than a week old.

Add a filter for registrating an accountname with crude words inside of them. We just had a troll called "dogfucker"

Blocking should be freely accessible to everybody on the site. It's vital safety feature for this kind of place, regardless of gender identity.

Could you find a way to advertise the site so that more people can join and others can find local members near to them?

People should be able to expose trolls / harassers...i.e., if someone sends another a trollish/harassing remark, they should be able to share it and the identity of the sender to the community at large.

Statistics Feature
We could have a feature that describes how many feeders, feedees, BHMs, BBWs, and how many people in what countries there are. Just thinking it'd be a neat feature.

Review / Ban Members who have been blocked by large number of members.

Might be ideal to give a way for members to report offensive comments made on the feeds either yours or others.

Just saw a posting where either a guys account got hacked or he's just an ass and was very disparaging to another user. Seeing crap like that does not make this a friendly welcoming website.

Maybe something similar like craigslist where if more than 1 (some number) reports it.. it's auto removed. (maybe a notice given to admins)

Why not create a feature that lets anyone plan an event. like Facebook. this would allow for more/different events to happen than the same people controlling where/when the events happen

I think you guys should have an 'In Memoriam' section of known members who have departed us added to the navigation bar. I know death is something no one likes to think about, but it'll help the rest of us know why we haven't heard from certain members in ages, and it's a chance for people to pay their last respects.

On other sites, user identity is confirmed by requiring users to submit a photo of themselves holding a code number. This works well, and I suggest that it be used on this site also.
That gives other users confidence that they aren't being misled when they visit a user's profile.

a PayItForward button on the site's dashboard? Would help stop a lot of negativity and promote peace and confidence in the community.

Provide official information, via their profile page, about (a) the fact that someone has been banned (b) what kind of ban they got and (c) why they got banned, specifically. The truth needs to be made available directly, to avoid the potential spread of misinformation and enable people to make sound judgements about the validity of the various #FreeUsername campaigns which arise when prominent members are banned. Transparency and communication are important building blocks for trust in the platform.

Today I had an interaction with a self described volunteer moderator for your website. I would like to recommend some kind of profile portrait banner or other way of denoting that someone is indeed a verified volunteer moderator of your website. Seems suspect to me when someone can just claim they are.