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  1. Add a story section

    A story section would be a nice addition

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    • Blog Style Forums

      In light of the recent Tumblr downfall. Maybe blog style forums could be added to strengthen a sense of community. Forums to talk publicly about off topic subjects or post art, stories, things like that. It'd really help members feel more comfortable sharing interests and making connections.

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      • Thanks for your job!

        Hello Grommr Admin,
        I would like to say that I absolutely appreciate your work and your effort to keep this community Safe and Healthy. The last event of Rollings Stones naming Grommr was a Bright example of how you Admins are working. That makes me happy and proud to be part of this community.
        Thanks for your efforts.

        Diego

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        • Feabie: If one plans to ask others for payment via message, that goal must first be disclosed on their public profile

          Lately on feabie, we have seen an influx of “feedees” looking solely for “online feeders”. Profiles are purposely deceptive and list interest such as ‘relationship’ or ‘casual encounter’ but it becomes very obvious in conversation via message that the sole interest with feabie is to sell content or have money sent with no exchange whatsoever. If users are required to disclose that they have a financial interest with feabie on their profile, users could filter that out via search to eliminate the noise and ensure time and effort in conversation are spent on those who align with them in use…

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          • tell users that the feedback forum exists and to look at it.

            promote the feedback forum better, get the whole community involved instead of just us with immediate problems.

            31 votes
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            • Do not allow Misandry

              Please add Misandry to Law #5 - Equality goes both ways.

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                gathering feedback  ·  6 comments  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
              • account deletion

                Add a minimum time limit of 1 week between someone deleting and recreating an account

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                • international misunderstanding about the term 'casual encounter'

                  hey there! first off, thank you so much for creating such an incredibly well working website, it's such a treat! I really enjoy being on here <3
                  but since this is the feedback box I wanted to tell you about a bit of a problem regarding the 'casual encounter' option. I'm not sure how international your team is, but even though I speak English very well I did not know 'casual encounter' means a one night stand or a hookup, I think it's the kind of slang that a lot of people from non-English speaking countries have no access to.

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                    gathering feedback  ·  0 comments  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                  • Non-feedist Site for BHM/BBW

                    Here is my basic idea:

                    I propose that to help calm disagreements on feabie we split the site. We develop a site that is for non-feedist bbw/bhm individuals and have feabie set geared toward the feedist community. This will help have focused communities and keep the community drama free while establishing "deep-rooted homes" for specific parts of the community.

                    Help vote this so we can make this a reality. Thank you!

                    65 votes
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                      gathering feedback  ·  4 comments  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                    • Unlimited blocking for everybody

                      Blocking should be freely accessible to everybody on the site. It's vital safety feature for this kind of place, regardless of gender identity.

                      148 votes
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                        gathering feedback  ·  22 comments  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                      • Ability to "mute" specific users

                        It's rare I feel the need to 'block' someone (unless they're being specifically abusive) but it would be great to 'mute' them from the newsfeed. This would mean users who post content other users would prefer not to see, or would prefer to see less frequently, could be silenced/muted but private messages are still open if required and equally they can visit one another's profiles. Sometimes you can be good friends, but not be interested in EVERYTHING they say!

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                          gathering feedback  ·  0 comments  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                        • No Professional BBW / Cam-girls

                          What about to throw away all the professional BBWs from this site? They are only doing advertisements and waiting for potentional clients. They only ask for money

                          25 votes
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                            gathering feedback  ·  1 comment  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                          • Asexual Grommr?

                            I am wondering if the grommr staff have thought of doing a grommr like website for asexuals.

                            13 votes
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                              gathering feedback  ·  0 comments  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                            • 24 hour moderation

                              Increase your paid moderation support to provide 24 hour service. Currently trolls can appear and act for hours before being blocked.

                              8 votes
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                                gathering feedback  ·  0 comments  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
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                                • Ban users from adding paypal accounts, or "funds," to their profile (Grommr)

                                  I've seen a few members on this site have a link to their paypal account in their profile. They ask members to donate to their paypal account so that they can buy more food to grow faster. Because this is sexual in nature, it really is nothing than a loose form of prostitution and should not be allowed to be advertised within someone's profile or solicited through status either.

                                  199 votes
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                                    gathering feedback 1-site  ·  7 comments  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                                  • Confirm identity of a member / User verification

                                    On other sites, user identity is confirmed by requiring users to submit a photo of themselves holding a code number. This works well, and I suggest that it be used on this site also.
                                    That gives other users confidence that they aren't being misled when they visit a user's profile.

                                    612 votes
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                                      gathering feedback  ·  13 comments  ·  Moderation/Community  ·  Flag idea as inappropriate…  ·  Admin →
                                    • "Coffee Corner" for bellies?

                                      "Coffee corner" for gainers? Like a dedicated space on the site and app to discuss social problems in the belly world, with body positivity and self esteem, respect and love as the core rules, all while sitting down and having a cup o' Joe with their friends and fave gainers/encouragers?

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                                      • Create protocol for dealing with possibly underage user

                                        There should be a standard protocol, posted prominently by grommr, for interacting with a user who could be underage. This would at least help prevent people on this site from putting themselves in legal jeopardy. For instance, grommr could make a form to request that another user's age be verified. Grommr could also make it clear to younger users that they should expect to have to verify their age. That way there is no hesitation from both sides. Age verification should be like carding someone who orders alcohol - just standard procedure.

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                                        • Allow new underage users to post their real birthday so they can get banned upon joining

                                          Make underage years an option upon joining, anyone that puts down an underage birthdate is automatically banned. It won't catch all underage but it'll catch the stupid ones before they even join.

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