A story section would be a nice addition

In light of the recent Tumblr downfall. Maybe blog style forums could be added to strengthen a sense of community. Forums to talk publicly about off topic subjects or post art, stories, things like that. It'd really help members feel more comfortable sharing interests and making connections.

Hello Grommr Admin,
I would like to say that I absolutely appreciate your work and your effort to keep this community Safe and Healthy. The last event of Rollings Stones naming Grommr was a Bright example of how you Admins are working. That makes me happy and proud to be part of this community.
Thanks for your efforts.

Diego

promote the feedback forum better, get the whole community involved instead of just us with immediate problems.

Please add Misandry to Law #5 - Equality goes both ways.

Add a minimum time limit of 1 week between someone deleting and recreating an account

Here is my basic idea:

I propose that to help calm disagreements on feabie we split the site. We develop a site that is for non-feedist bbw/bhm individuals and have feabie set geared toward the feedist community. This will help have focused communities and keep the community drama free while establishing "deep-rooted homes" for specific parts of the community.

Help vote this so we can make this a reality. Thank you!

Blocking should be freely accessible to everybody on the site. It's vital safety feature for this kind of place, regardless of gender identity.

It's rare I feel the need to 'block' someone (unless they're being specifically abusive) but it would be great to 'mute' them from the newsfeed. This would mean users who post content other users would prefer not to see, or would prefer to see less frequently, could be silenced/muted but private messages are still open if required and equally they can visit one another's profiles. Sometimes you can be good friends, but not be interested in EVERYTHING they say!

What about to throw away all the professional BBWs from this site? They are only doing advertisements and waiting for potentional clients. They only ask for money

I am wondering if the grommr staff have thought of doing a grommr like website for asexuals.

Increase your paid moderation support to provide 24 hour service. Currently trolls can appear and act for hours before being blocked.

I've seen a few members on this site have a link to their paypal account in their profile. They ask members to donate to their paypal account so that they can buy more food to grow faster. Because this is sexual in nature, it really is nothing than a loose form of prostitution and should not be allowed to be advertised within someone's profile or solicited through status either.

On other sites, user identity is confirmed by requiring users to submit a photo of themselves holding a code number. This works well, and I suggest that it be used on this site also.
That gives other users confidence that they aren't being misled when they visit a user's profile.

"Coffee corner" for gainers? Like a dedicated space on the site and app to discuss social problems in the belly world, with body positivity and self esteem, respect and love as the core rules, all while sitting down and having a cup o' Joe with their friends and fave gainers/encouragers?

There should be a standard protocol, posted prominently by grommr, for interacting with a user who could be underage. This would at least help prevent people on this site from putting themselves in legal jeopardy. For instance, grommr could make a form to request that another user's age be verified. Grommr could also make it clear to younger users that they should expect to have to verify their age. That way there is no hesitation from both sides. Age verification should be like carding someone who orders alcohol - just standard procedure.

Make underage years an option upon joining, anyone that puts down an underage birthdate is automatically banned. It won't catch all underage but it'll catch the stupid ones before they even join.